my name is amy mcdowell marlow and i am the author of bluelightblue. i am a 20-year survivor of suicide loss who lives with mental illness.
mental illness has been part of my life for a long time. but until recently i didn’t want anyone else to know. when i was thirteen i lost my dad to suicide in our own home and i was the first to find him. at 21 i was diagnosed with major depression and generalized anxiety disorder. i would say that shame and silence characterized the way i dealt with my dad’s death and my own mental health challenges for many years.
i started this blog after living through an episode of major depression, anxiety and ptsd in 2014. getting sick and falling apart brought the shame i had been hiding for so long up to the surface and out into the open. i became aware of how mental health stigma had impacted me since childhood. as i began to process my experience as a survivor of suicide and childhood trauma, i started to write. and write. and write. this blog has helped me write my way out of being silent about my own mental illness.
i am deeply grateful that my story has resonated with so many others. bluelightblue was named one of the 2016 best blogs on depression by healthline. i was awarded the maryland foundation for psychiatry’s 2016 anti-stigma advocacy award for my article in the washington post, my dad killed himself when i was thirteen. he hid his depression – i won’t hide mine. and most recently i was named by the washington post as one of the 11 most inspirational people they met in 2016.
in addition to writing about mental illness, i am a trained peer facilitator and public speaker with NAMI (the national alliance on mental illness). i share my story with audiences across the washington d.c. – metro area to raise awareness about mental health issues.
i am a native of northern virginia and live in falls church with my husband, will, and my dog, winston.
thank you for reading.
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